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Apologizing is a bad habit. How scary it is when God says: “Move away! They said that they would be treated for toothache, but everyone, sorry, was put in gynecological chairs

How scary it is when God says: "Move away!"

I want to shout again:

"Lord, you did not recognize me, wait a minute" -

But His gaze will be stern.

Then suddenly the words will rain down:

“Do you remember that you served you for a long time,

And my head became gray

From doing duty.

I attended the meetings carefully,

And the instructions of the brothers,

As Your will, I always accepted,

I wore a dress in shape.

I said "I'm sorry" to everyone when I could

Flare up and offend someone.

And gossip, what a malicious whisper

I tried not to hear, not to see.

He gave, not sparing, his clothes,

Without benefit that lay,

And how diligently I, God, I sing-

Listen just a little.

Well, tell me, I didn’t serve You,

Doing all the laws? "

And suddenly it will thunder: “You did not love Me,

I never knew you.

You judged everyone in your heart,

And he was simply a hypocrite

And in vicious thoughts he was a liar,

At least on the surface it seemed an example.

He threw words of instruction behind his back,

Insincere, cunning saint,

Not to my will, you pleased people,

So what do you want now? "

Oh no, it is impossible to deceive the Creator,

He knows His creatures -

All the hidden thoughts in the minds

He reads motives in his hearts.

You shouldn't try to deceive Him

Washing the cup from the outside,

But - to cling to His will with obedience,

Transforming character ...

Emmanuel Macron

French President Emmanuel Macron asked for forgiveness from the widow of the fighter for the independence of Algeria, Maurice Auden, Josette Auden, whose husband was tortured and killed by French soldiers in 1957. Thus, the country's responsibility for the death of Auden was officially recognized.

Auden was a Franco-Algerian lecturer in mathematics at the University of Algeria. He also participated in the anti-colonial movement and advocated for the independence of Algeria. On June 11, 1957, soldiers of the French army came to Auden's home. They arrested the activist, after which he disappeared.

His wife, Josette Auden, was not aware of her husband's fate until she was told that he had escaped from prison. In 2014, former French President François Hollande admitted that Auden had died in captivity.

Algeria was a French colony for almost 150 years, and in 1954 supporters of the country's liberation raised an uprising, which was brutally suppressed by the French colonialists. Despite the fact that the Algerians lost the war, France recognized the country's independence. The conflict killed at least 500 thousand people.

Stand corrected

Admitting guilt or mistake is an important step, especially if a person is not an ordinary figure in history, but a leader of the state. Someone admits the mistakes of their predecessors, someone - their own. Philippine President Rodrigo Duterte has apologized to former US leader Barack Obama for swearing at the American president in response to criticism of the anti-drug policy of the Philippine authorities.

In 2002, Chancellor Gerhard Schroeder had to apologize to US President George W. Bush for the words of German Justice Minister Hertha Dobler-Gmelin, who publicly compared Bush's political methods to those of Hitler: “By threatening Iraq, Bush wants to divert attention from domestic problems. This is a popular method. Even Hitler did it. " And although Dobler-Gmelin insisted that she did not say that, Schroeder chose to apologize to the American leader.

In April 2003, French President Jacques Chirac apologized to Queen Elizabeth for vandalizing a cemetery in northern France where the remains of British soldiers who died during the First World War are buried. Vandals opposed to the war in Iraq have left many inscriptions on the gravestones, including insults to the American President George W. Bush and British Prime Minister Tony Blair.

In November 2009, French President Nicolas Sarkozy apologized to the head of the Irish government, Brian Cowen. This time, the feeling of guilt came after the French football team defeated the Irish in the play-offs for the 2010 World Cup, with striker Thierry Henry playing along with his hand. “I expressed my deep regret to Brian Cowen. But do not ask me to take the place of the referee of the French or European football authorities: leave me to go about my business, ”Sarkozy said.

In October 2010, the White House officially apologized to Guatemala for medical research conducted by American doctors in 1946-1948 on local residents. American doctors deliberately infected the inhabitants of the country with sexually transmitted diseases. The aim of the research was to determine the effectiveness of penicillin in the treatment and prevention of syphilis, in total, more than 1600 people were infected.

On June 27, 2016, the Kremlin's website published an apology from the Turkish president, brought to the head of the Russian state for the downed Russian Su-24 plane. “I want to once again express my sympathy and deep condolences to the family of the deceased Russian pilot and say: sorry,” Erdogan was quoted as saying. Later, a spokesman for the Turkish president confirmed the authenticity of Erdogan's letter, but said the expressed regret was not an apology. The next day, Putin's spokesman Dmitry Peskov noted that the Russian translation was 100% consistent with the Turkish original.

) I have already told you what polysemy “ça va” and “oh -l à-l à” have in French. Here are a couple more ambiguous words:

3. Pardon [sorry]

Do you think that this is "sorry"? I thought so too. In fact, it all depends on the situation and intonation. For example, you started confusingly explaining to the saleswoman that you want the same one, but with mother-of-pearl buttons. And mother-of-pearl buttons have never been delivered to their boutique, and the saleswoman does not know what they look like. Then she will look at you in surprise and say: "Sorry?" And in this case it means: “What did you heap up there? I didn't understand anything! Well one more time. "

If there are a lot of people in the metro, and from the depths of the carriage "Sorry ... sorry ...", or even so, chanting - "Par-don ... par-don ...", then this word has a fundamentally different meaning, namely: "Pass, I'm going out now ... let me pass. " If there are a lot of people, then sorry sounds harsh and abrupt: “Sorry! Sorry! " and means already "Yes, move over, I can't get through in any way, I got loose here, you know!"

In France, pardon is most often "exchanged". For example, someone stepped on someone's foot. "Sorry," he says ("Oops, I haven't seen, I'm sorry"). "Sorry!" - they will immediately answer him ("You have to watch where you are going, elephant!").

In shops and public institutions, they are sorry, even if they just walk close. In such cases, "sorry" has an ingratiatingly gallant connotation: "Sorry?" ("Is it okay that I pass you?" - and in response: "Sorry" ("Come, of course"). Or even so: "Sorry?" ("Hello, wonderful weather today, don't you think?") - and in response: "Sorry" ("Yes, the weather is wonderful, and you are very nice too").

4. Excusez -moi [excusez-moi]

Many people think that pardon (official meaning "sorry") and excusez -moi (official meaning "sorry") are synonyms, but they are not. I don’t know how this difference is explained in the textbooks, I’ll tell you this: sorry they usually say when they’ve done something (they didn’t understand, they stepped on their feet) or they’re doing now (they climb to the exit, bypass), but excuse-mua when they are only going to mess up. For example, you are walking down the street, and someone followed you and persistently repeats: “Excuse-mua. Excuse-mua ". He hasn't done anything yet, but be sure, if you stop or turn around, he will immediately ask for money. Or dates. Or the road, but this is less common. And the intonation is appropriate: “Stop. Wait, I tell you. Stop, finally! " And sometimes homeless people in the subway chant: "Excuse-moa-ah-ah, ekskuze-mua-ah-ah", and then it means: "Come on, good people ... come on at mercy, damn you all. "

Of course, I summarized everything here, there are other cases of use, but in general, something like that. If anyone did not please, sorry.

Sorry

I ask forgiveness, forgive generously, I apologize, do not seek, I am guilty, forgive generously, do not judge, do not blame me, I am guilty, it will not be said in anger, I am sorry, I am sorry, I am sorry, I am sorry, I am sorry, I am sorry, I am sorry, do not be angry, do not demand

  • - male, French forgive me, have mercy, I submit, I surrender ...

    Dahl's Explanatory Dictionary

  • - forgiveness! I give up! For aman, for pardon the Russian has no word Wed. Sorry, no! and rightly so ... Dahl. The tale of Ivan, a young sergeant. Wed I look, they threw away the flag: well, I think, I'm sorry, they ask, ours took it! ...

    Explanatory phraseological dictionary of Michelson

  • - PARDON. 1. Int. Sorry, sorry. 2. in meaning. noun sorry, sorry, pl. No, husband. Forgiveness, apology, mercy. I asked for a pardon. “Sorry, no! and rightly so ...

    Ushakov's Explanatory Dictionary

  • Efremova's Explanatory Dictionary

  • - pardon I m. 1. Forgiveness. 2. Request for forgiveness, apology. II predicate. colloquial Apology, please forgive as an action. III int. colloquial Used as an apology, a request to forgive ...

    Efremova's Explanatory Dictionary

  • - pardon I m. 1. Forgiveness. 2. Request for forgiveness, apology. II predicate. colloquial Apology, please forgive as an action. III int. colloquial Used as an apology, a request to forgive ...

    Efremova's Explanatory Dictionary

  • - pard "he, -a and -y, and do not know ...

    Russian spelling dictionary

  • - pardon for the first time in Peter I; see Smirnov 218. From the French. paradon "forgiveness" ...

    Vasmer's etymological dictionary

  • - I. PARDON I pardon 1. military, obsolete ...

    Historical Dictionary of Russian Gallicisms

  • - Sorry! - forgiveness! I give up! On aman, on pardon the Russian and the word nѣt. Wed Nѣt vam sorry! and by the way ... Dahl. The Tale of Ivanѣ, the young sergeantѣ ...

    Michelson's Explanatory Phraseological Dictionary (original orph.)

  • - Spread. Shuttle-iron. Apology formula. / i> From French: mille pardons ...
  • - Miles sorry. Spread. Shuttle-iron. Apology formula. / i> From French: mille pardons. Mokienko 2003, 71 / Don't know sorry. Novg. Work without rest. NOSE 7, 99 ...

    A large dictionary of Russian sayings

  • - Sorry...

    Dictionary of foreign words of the Russian language

  • - see: Forgive me for the sake of ...

    Dictionary of Russian argo

  • - 1.

    Word forms

  • - I ask forgiveness, forgive generously, I apologize, do not seek, I am guilty, forgive generously, do not condemn, do not blame me, I am guilty, it will not be said in anger, forgive, forgive, I am sorry, I am sorry, I am sorry, I am asking ...

    Synonym dictionary

"sorry" in the books

Sorry!

From the book The Writing Club the author Vanshenkin Konstantin Yakovlevich

Sorry! A grandiose concert dedicated to the next (May 1993) Victory Day took place in the Rossiya hall. Performed by artists of almost all genres, poets, composers. The famous athletes in the past came out in several people at once, almost as a team. They also stood at

Bonjour, madam - sorry, monsieur ...

From the book Around and Around the author Bablumyan Sergey Arutyunovich

Bonjour, madam - sorry, monsieur ... "Sorry" in Lausanne is as organic as the "merci" in Nubarashen. This is the end of harmony, because then disharmony begins. What happens next is what happens. A person's side comfortably smoothed life with neatly cut corners often

I shout "sorry!" And he keeps running ...

From the book Everyday Life of the Russian Army during the Suvorov Wars the author Okhlyabinin Sergei Dmitrievich

I shout "sorry!" And he keeps running ... Finally, the sentries began to shoot, and from the fortress they began to throw "lights" (128). At this very time, the third rocket took off. We shouted "hurray!" - all the columns around ... the frozen ground just hummed - gu ... gu ... gu ... and so they ran that they threw it on

They said that they would be treated for toothache, but everyone, sorry, was put in gynecological chairs

From the book News from the Kremlin the author Zenkovich Nikolay Alexandrovich

They said that they would treat for a toothache, but everyone, sorry, was put in gynecological chairs - We live like a fairy tale, - said Moscow economist Sergei Krasnov. - It’s a pity that it’s terrible. Captured by prophecies and spells. And the role of magicians and sorcerers is played by politicians.

WHERE DO YOU, PARDON, PRODUCTION?

From the book Business is Business: 60 True Stories of How Ordinary People Get Started and Succeeded the author Hanswind Igor Igorevich

WHERE DO YOU, PARDON, PRODUCTION? Alas, Western buyers associate Russia not so much with an immense market as with various troubles of an applied nature. - When buyers order our collection in Milan, they ask: “Where is your production? Ah, in

But often, apologizing, you not only do not solve the problem, but, on the contrary, only make it worse. However, there is a great alternative to apologizing. I want to tell you about this.

Why is an apology bad?

Firstly When you apologize, you focus on negative things. Before you said this, this fact was invisible or insignificant to others. And now only the lazy one does not shake his head, saying: "Yeah!.."

Secondly by apologizing, you admit your mistake. You are the weak link! And if before that everything looked as planned, now everything fell apart right before our eyes. As soon as you apologized, you immediately took on guilt and a sense of imperfection. It is much more difficult to continue what has been started with such a sediment.

Thirdly By apologizing, you provoke people to feel sorry for or comfort you. To restore the balance of pleasantries, so to speak. Someone will say: "Anyway. It happens to everyone!" or "It's not scary, we understand ..." If your mistake really made people uncomfortable, then the force-drawn "forgiveness" will be insincere. This can leave a negative impression on them. If the mistake is insignificant, then, by apologizing, you, on the contrary, form in people a sense of guilt. Someone might think: “After all, it seems that he didn’t do anything terrible, but he apologized like that… It’s even inconvenient somehow…”

The best alternative to apologizing is gratitude!

Reorganize your phrase so that instead of apologizing and excuses, the person hears thanks or praise in his address. Thus, you will not make yourself guilty, and you will compliment people.

I will give an example... I recently attended a master class that took place in one of the business centers on the outskirts of Moscow. Some people have had difficulty finding the right address for the event. However, in the end, everyone gathered without delay.

Before the start of the master class, the presenter asked if everyone easily found the right place. Participants complained that they had a hard time coping with this task. In response, the coach said: "Sorry, this is our oversight ..."

In this case, instead of an apology, it would be better to praise the audience: “What good fellows you are that you managed to arrive on time! If you have already coped with this task, then, I am sure, you will not have any difficulties with mastering the master class program. "

Or here's another such case... After one premiere, I lingered in the lobby of the cinema with the director, discussing the film I had just watched. When I went down to the closet, I found that only my coat and a couple of jackets were left on the hangers.

Walking up to the woman in charge of distributing the clothes, I said: "Thank you for waiting for the most notorious moviegoers!" In response, the cloakroom attendant smiled and handed me my coat.

Literally a minute later, two more approached. One held out the tag in silence, the other tried to apologize. The keeper's sweet smile was replaced by a displeased expression on her face. She immediately began to grumble that she should have been home for a long time and that clothes should be received on time ...

So now instead of apologizing make it a rule to thank people!

Here are some examples of how to replace an apology with a gratitude:

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